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	<title>Comments on: Every single one of them named Jennifer</title>
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		<title>By: Mari</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-8841</link>
		<dc:creator>Mari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey guess what! Bishop Allen was recently in the Street Date studios- check it out!

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thestreetdate.com/2009/03/10/bishop-allen-grrr/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Bishop Allen in the Street Date Studios&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey guess what! Bishop Allen was recently in the Street Date studios- check it out!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thestreetdate.com/2009/03/10/bishop-allen-grrr/" rel="nofollow">Bishop Allen in the Street Date Studios</a></p>
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		<title>By: bluestreak</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7836</link>
		<dc:creator>bluestreak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 10:42:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>beautiful and sad post.  you just made me want to call my dad.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;bluestreaks last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://mybluestreak.blogspot.com/2009/01/hyperreality-of-home_23.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Hyperreality of Home&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>beautiful and sad post.  you just made me want to call my dad.</p>
<p><abbr><em>bluestreaks last blog post..<a href="http://mybluestreak.blogspot.com/2009/01/hyperreality-of-home_23.html" rel="nofollow">The Hyperreality of Home</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: People in the Sun</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7790</link>
		<dc:creator>People in the Sun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2009 07:28:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jill and Arizaphale, here&#039;s another story. One day, around that time, we were walking together and I started whistling. He then told me a story about one early morning, when he was a little boy, working with his father, the neighborhood milkman. While they were working, my father whistled, and his father slapped him in the face. When my father asked him why he did that, my grandfather said it was impolite to whistle. When he saw my father was still upset, he told him (or at least that&#039;s what my father told me), &quot;How I wish my father who died in the Holocaust could be here now to slap my face...&quot;

That&#039;s it.

Maybe the moral of the story is that some people will use any excuse to beat up on defenseless people.

Or maybe it means descendants of Holocaust survivors are messed up, and it might take a few more generations.

And it might mean that abused kids will more than likely abuse their own kids. My father never abused me. He hit me here and there and yelled a lot. But I have to constantly be aware, because that non-abuse was not criminal but it was bad enough, and in many ways it defined me. I constantly guard myself, because I might have that virus, you know? It&#039;s insane, isn&#039;t it?

(Sorry, Freeman, for taking over).

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;People in the Suns last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.peopleinthesun.com/2009/01/wait-youre-telling-me-his-middle-name.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wait! You&#039;re telling me his middle name is Hussein? What Have We Done? (and other inauguration thougts)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jill and Arizaphale, here&#8217;s another story. One day, around that time, we were walking together and I started whistling. He then told me a story about one early morning, when he was a little boy, working with his father, the neighborhood milkman. While they were working, my father whistled, and his father slapped him in the face. When my father asked him why he did that, my grandfather said it was impolite to whistle. When he saw my father was still upset, he told him (or at least that&#8217;s what my father told me), &#8220;How I wish my father who died in the Holocaust could be here now to slap my face&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s it.</p>
<p>Maybe the moral of the story is that some people will use any excuse to beat up on defenseless people.</p>
<p>Or maybe it means descendants of Holocaust survivors are messed up, and it might take a few more generations.</p>
<p>And it might mean that abused kids will more than likely abuse their own kids. My father never abused me. He hit me here and there and yelled a lot. But I have to constantly be aware, because that non-abuse was not criminal but it was bad enough, and in many ways it defined me. I constantly guard myself, because I might have that virus, you know? It&#8217;s insane, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>(Sorry, Freeman, for taking over).</p>
<p><abbr><em>People in the Suns last blog post..<a href="http://www.peopleinthesun.com/2009/01/wait-youre-telling-me-his-middle-name.html" rel="nofollow">Wait! You&#8217;re telling me his middle name is Hussein? What Have We Done? (and other inauguration thougts)</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: The Dean</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7712</link>
		<dc:creator>The Dean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 15:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dude.  Just. Dude.  I don&#039;t like crying in my office.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Deans last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bulldoginexile.wordpress.com/2009/01/21/andy-kennedys-wife-sues-for-loss-of-consortium/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Andy Kennedy’s wife sues for loss of consortium&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dude.  Just. Dude.  I don&#8217;t like crying in my office.</p>
<p><abbr><em>The Deans last blog post..<a href="http://bulldoginexile.wordpress.com/2009/01/21/andy-kennedys-wife-sues-for-loss-of-consortium/" rel="nofollow">Andy Kennedy’s wife sues for loss of consortium</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Gypsy</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7691</link>
		<dc:creator>Gypsy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 19:15:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;But we&#039;ll get together then.&quot;

Such a touching post. I still like to ride around with my dad, although less now that he&#039;s not paying as much attention to what&#039;s going on in the road ahead of him.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Gypsys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Strangedarkgypsygirl/~3/509899915/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Clarification&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But we&#8217;ll get together then.&#8221;</p>
<p>Such a touching post. I still like to ride around with my dad, although less now that he&#8217;s not paying as much attention to what&#8217;s going on in the road ahead of him.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Gypsys last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Strangedarkgypsygirl/~3/509899915/" rel="nofollow">Clarification</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: carrie</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7674</link>
		<dc:creator>carrie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 03:28:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>social etiquette on buses is weird, like the unspoken agreement to act like you don&#039;t see someone, even tho you see them daily. Or on the other hand the ones who are your best friend (in their mind) just cuz you ride the bus together. 

My son (14) has chosen friends over me &amp; it hurts a little til i put myself in his shoes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>social etiquette on buses is weird, like the unspoken agreement to act like you don&#8217;t see someone, even tho you see them daily. Or on the other hand the ones who are your best friend (in their mind) just cuz you ride the bus together. </p>
<p>My son (14) has chosen friends over me &amp; it hurts a little til i put myself in his shoes.</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7669</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 22:03:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nathan - I&#039;m usually that guy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan &#8211; I&#8217;m usually that guy.</p>
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		<title>By: Nathan B.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 21:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What do you think about when you sit next to the guy carrying his own urine in a jar?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you think about when you sit next to the guy carrying his own urine in a jar?</p>
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		<title>By: Lara</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7664</link>
		<dc:creator>Lara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 19:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Time goes way too fast.  I struggled a lot a year ago, dealing with the realization that Blondie, not yet 16, was going to be leaving home in just a few months.  And I still struggle with him being gone. I miss him every day... and struggle every time he accuses me of &#039;facebook stalking&#039;.

But I&#039;ve found that the touching moments of the past may be over, but the present brings new touching moments.  And I can only assume the future will bring even more.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Laras last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://whinywench.blogspot.com/2009/01/but-same-sex-marriages-arent-even-legal.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;But same-sex marriages aren&#039;t even legal!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time goes way too fast.  I struggled a lot a year ago, dealing with the realization that Blondie, not yet 16, was going to be leaving home in just a few months.  And I still struggle with him being gone. I miss him every day&#8230; and struggle every time he accuses me of &#8216;facebook stalking&#8217;.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;ve found that the touching moments of the past may be over, but the present brings new touching moments.  And I can only assume the future will bring even more.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Laras last blog post..<a href="http://whinywench.blogspot.com/2009/01/but-same-sex-marriages-arent-even-legal.html" rel="nofollow">But same-sex marriages aren&#8217;t even legal!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: SSG</title>
		<link>http://www.afreeman.org/2009/01/16/every-single-one-of-them-named-jennifer/comment-page-1/#comment-7652</link>
		<dc:creator>SSG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 14:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the way you write an emotional, heart-rending story, then Dr O&#039;c brings it back to reality. You are a quality couple!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;SSGs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wakeupitstuesday.org/2009/01/hello-peeps/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hello peeps&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the way you write an emotional, heart-rending story, then Dr O&#8217;c brings it back to reality. You are a quality couple!</p>
<p><abbr><em>SSGs last blog post..<a href="http://wakeupitstuesday.org/2009/01/hello-peeps/" rel="nofollow">Hello peeps</a></em></abbr></p>
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