I’m a fair way behind the pop cultural curve these days, particularly when it come to television. TV in Oz is, well, just very bad. It consists mostly of reality shows and last season’s American dramas and sit coms or – worse – Australian interpretations of last season’s American dramas and sit coms. So I generally just don’t watch TV. Every now and again, however, I get sucked into some TV show – usually well after it’s prime. Dr. O’C and I have just gone through the withdrawals of coming off “The Office” cold turkey after running out of episodes on DVD.
Our receptionist at work turned me on to my latest TV obsession – “Friday Night Lights“. I didn’t expect much – a teen melodrama a la “90210″ at best – but this is inspired television. It’s a well-written, gritty drama, with some stunning performances. For a football fan like your underwhelming correspondent, the realistic game scenes are a regrettably too rare bonus. Above all, it’s a realistic portrait of a football obsessed Southern town. Dillon, Texas could be one of a thousand towns between North Carolina and Texas. Small towns with little to draw them together but for the success or failure of their children on the gridiron.
Last week, when I started writing this post, I had intended to use a different tone, a different punchline. I had planned to talk about how I grew up in a real-life Dillon – a dead-end town in the far north of the state of Florida. I had planned to flay Lake City, a town of about 10,000 to which my family moved in 1980, my father following the tail-end of north Florida’s phosphate boom. From the way this post is flowing, it looks like I’m still going to tell you that Lake City was famous for pretty much nothing, that was a squalid rest-stop on the way to better places. Lake City was a sleepy Southern town that would have been more at home in Georgia and Alabama than the Sunshine State and like most Southern towns, football was king. Lake City was pretty far removed – geographically and culturally – from the nearest pro clubs in Tampa Bay or Atlanta. Neither were there any major colleges or universities in town. But there was a high school and much like Dillon and their Panthers, the town of Lake City lived and died with their Tigers.
Every autumn, Friday nights were reserved for football. It wasn’t just high-school students that headed downtown for the games, anyone who was anyone hit the stands of Memorial Stadium. Grown men reliving their lost youth living vicariously through seventeen and eighteen year old boys. Alums who had reached their prime at about 18 and now tried to reclaim some of that vigor by hollering out from the steel bleachers at boys in purple and gold on the cropped grass below. The mood of the town for the following week was dictated by the number on the scoreboard at the end of four quarters.
At some point in my teens I realized that Lake City had nothing to offer me. I got the hell out of Lake City as soon as I could. At seventeen I graduated and after one more summer in a devil town, hit the road for college. A couple more summers at home and I never looked back. I came back for visits. My parents remained there until about five years ago when they headed for greener pastures themselves. With their departure I knew I’d never be back to what I have to consider my ‘hometown’.
I’ve written about Lake City before. I’ve written with scorn about the people and the complete lack of culture and opportunities. I’ve written about the poor public education system I’ve written about my gratitude that I never have to go back, that I no longer have a single tie to the place. But I don’t want this to be another post about how much the place I grew up sucked. It did suck. Yes, I took what I consider to be more than my fair share of shit in high school, much of it from guys who were a lot like the gridiron starts of “Friday Night Lights”. But that taught me to be quick witted, allowed me the charisma I still use to get out of tough spots today. Yes, the public schools of Columbia County were absolutely dreadful – some of the worst in a state full of pretty awful public schools. But I had some great individual teachers and I had opportunities to excel beyond the curriculum. I learned how to think on my own and learn outside of the classroom – skills that I still use today. Lake City offered little in the way of culture (OK, I got to see Johnny Cash in the community college gym once) and no career opportunities outside of the Super Wal-Mart (currently the city’s number one employer). But this taught me to keep my eyes open for opportunity wherever it may raise its head and to find entertainment in the simplest things. Above all, Lake City, in all it’s stifling blandness taught me to see the beauty in other places.
I am where I am because of my personal history – both the people, places and things that were fantastic and the people, places and things that sucked. Lake City sucked. But without those years in a devil town, I may not be where I am today. I’m happy today, and I guess it’s time to recognize that Lake City played a role in getting me here. So, through gritted teeth, I’d like to thank a shitty little dead end town in north Florida for its role in getting me where I am today.
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One of my favorite things about “Friday Night Lights” is the soundtrack – subtle indie and alt-country tracks that accent the show perfectly. One of the songs that I’ve got stuck in my head and that inspired this post is Daniel Johnston’s “Devil Town”. I love this Bright Eyes cover from “Noise Floor”
. Neither the original nor the Bright Eyes cover is featured on the soundtrack, but the latter is the best I’ve heard.
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by Angel
27 Jan 2009 at 21:15
Now I’m going to have that song stuck in my head all day. I, too, grew up in a town just like that, and now I’m back in it. So many things have changed and yet so many stayed the same. The school system has improved a great deal academically, but sports are still the gods to worship here. When you live in a devil town, you grasp anything that gives you meaning.
Not far from here is a town going through a major ordeal with their football coach being charged with wreckless homiocide because one of his players died after complications of a heat stroke a while back. The story is the coach denied the team breaks and access to water in really hot temperatures. It’s hard to know who to believe because right now so many people are saying one thing and so many claiming another.
Dead-end, lost in time towns… if the south can give us nothing else, it gives us those. But these towns hold the people who dream the biggest dreams.
by bluestreak
27 Jan 2009 at 21:45
It’s a good feeling to start to accept who you are completely. For years I’ve been listening to people tell me that Americans have no culture. I was ashamed of my half mormon, half born-again background of Mesa, Arizona. I just wanted to get the hell away from all that backwardness. When I introduced my family to my husband Luis, though, I started seeing this supposed culture with no culture as an outsider and it fascinates me now from an anthropological standpoint. It lets me have a whole different attitude when visiting home.
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by tysdaddy
27 Jan 2009 at 22:06
I’ve never seen the show (I work 2nd shift and can’t seem to find the time to do the online thing) but I really enjoyed the movie, with Billy Bob Thornton.
Small towns are all my wife knew growing up. Well, the same small town, anyway. There’s something about having roots, even if they are shallow . . .
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by headbang8
27 Jan 2009 at 22:32
Never, never, NEVER forgive them. And never, never NEVER thank them. This bullshit about adversity building the wonderful self you see today is, just that: BULLSHIT.
The people around you could actually HELP you to become a better person, rather than forcing you to become one out of spite. Teaching values by negative example is a dreadful way to teach values. And it might just as easily have ended up teaching you the wrong ones.
More power to you for learning these lessons the hard way. Out of compassion for you, AFM, I only wish the place where you grew up had nourished the child, rather than forced him to forage without help.
Personally, I would flush all of my so-called “charisma”, (apparently so useful to me in adult life), hard-won at the hands of bullies, bastards and phonies, down the toilet in exchange for the self-esteem which one, single, timely sentence of encouragement might have instilled.
My old “hometown” in Santorum-stained Pennsylvania was dogshit. I felt a lot better when I stopped trying to forgive those assholes, or find any redeeming quality in them.
Sorry, caught me on a bad day.
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by arizaphale
27 Jan 2009 at 23:17
My, my headbang. That hit a nerve didn’t it!? But you have stirred the embers of debate. You’re right inasmuch as a good, solid upbringing is usually better than a narrow, abusive one; but you are less accurate when you say that adversity does not contribute to building wonderful people. Well, perhaps ‘wonderful’ is the wrong word but certainly it contributes to ’stronger’ people. Now, whether we should thank or forgive that adversity is another matter. Maybe it’s even missing the point? The point is that it happened. It is part of a person’s journey and it has contributed to who they are, in this case, with a positive outcome. (Granted, it could just as easily have had a negative outcome but other factors such as home background, support networks and individual personalities also have a big part to play in the nature of that outcome). Maybe there is no call to thank or forgive, but perhaps there is a need to accept our personal history, let go of the anger and appreciate the lessons it has taught us.
(Having said that I am so glad my parents chose to leave the narrow, insular Northern UK town of my birth and give me the opportunity of growing up in Adelaide; another narrow, insular town but with infinitely better weather.)
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by Nichole
27 Jan 2009 at 23:29
We watched the last new episode of “Friday Night Lights” last night. I love that show.
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by Agnes
27 Jan 2009 at 23:46
I’m just wrapping up my second watching of the 4th season of The Office. Such a funny show.
Dwight: Identity theft is not a joke Jim! Millions of families suffer every year.
Angela: I find the mystery genre disgusting. I hate being titillated.
Dwight: it’s better to be hurt by someone you know, accidentally, than by a stranger, on purpose.
And I can’t believe you don’t appreciate the wonders of Aussie TV. Home and Away. Neighbours. Border Security. City Homicide. All Saints. Sea Patrol.
I’ve been watching the tennis this last week, and if I have to hear/see/endure one more bloody Channel 7 promo for Packed to the Bloody Rafters, I won’t be responsible for my actions.
And ads, too! Have you seen that Jeep ad with that guy pretending to be Obama? ‘Can we sell you such-and-such Jeep?’ ‘Yes we can!’ ‘Can we offer you great prices?’ ‘Yes we can!’
And that ‘you complete me’ RACV ad? Ugh!
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by Father Muskrat
28 Jan 2009 at 00:54
I’ve heard other bloggers talk about liking that show. Maybe I should give it a chance. That last TV show I gave a chance was “Friends.” Oh yeah, I did watch “Family Guy” a good bit in Iraq but not since coming home.
This makes me want to go to a highschool football game. There are a few good teams around here in Atlanta. Where I grew up, we went, but it wasn’t what the town rallied around or revolved around. I always wanted to play but my parents wouldn’t allow it when I was little, thinking I’d get killed. Then, when I was bigger, my wrestling coach didn’t want me to risk an injury that would keep me from competing on his team. One of my few regrets from childhood is never playing organized football (we played all the time in the backyard).
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by mongoliangirl
28 Jan 2009 at 01:20
…never know what we’ll end up grateful for, eh? I like this post. Very much. Thanks.
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by Southern (in)Sanity
28 Jan 2009 at 02:24
There are many little towns like Dillon in Florida, Alabama, Georgia, Mississippi, Texas and wherever else.
While it is clearly obvious that your despise for Lake City is overflowing, I am glad to see that – positive or not – you do admit the influence that it had on the person you are today. Too many folks these days want to ignore that fact with their hometowns.
That old saying that you can take the boy out of the country, but you can’t take the country out of the boy is true – and not just for “country.”
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by Theresa B
28 Jan 2009 at 02:46
I, too, went to a high school that sacrificed education on the altar of football. The football players could do no wrong, and the rest of the students were just… there. This wasn’t in a Southern town, so there were limits to the off-campus behavior, but it was still demoralizing for the rest of the students.
At the time (and for a good ten years after) I hated the players and everything about that system. I’ve gradually come to realize that the school wasn’t doing the players any favors either — every year they graduated a whole group of young men who felt the world owed them adulation. I think they all had a really rough time when people stopped cheering for them.
As for me, I still don’t watch football.
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by The Unbearable Banishment
28 Jan 2009 at 02:51
The girls in that show are really hot. Oh…ummm..yea, and the writing and acting is second to none.
Try growing up in Brook Park, Ohio. Have fun working at the Ford engine casting plant.
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by courtney
28 Jan 2009 at 03:34
I’ve not seen FNL, but I’ve heard from several people that it’s good.
If you’re looking for any other shows to watch on DVD, I recommend: Arrested Development, 30 Rock, Lost, and House.
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by Here In Franklin
28 Jan 2009 at 03:40
We had two high schools in Franklin when I was growing up–one public and one private. India’s caste system has nothing on the South of my youth–and there were many more layers than just black or white. The feelings between the two schools were so bad that they didn’t play each other for decades. But I liked my town and still live there.
As for Friday Night Lights–please, read the book. It’s one of my all-time favorites.
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by April
28 Jan 2009 at 04:11
Our apartment isn’t wired for cable and we haven’t wanted to shell out the couple hundred bucks it would take to make it so, in addition to the outrageous monthly fee for cable. Luckily we get a good selection of free TV, and three good PBS stations. But since we had the baby we’ve been spending a lot of time on the couch feeding her, so we started watching “The West Wing” on DVD and are now on the last two discs of the last season. I think I’m going to go through withdrawal when we’re done.
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by NATUI
28 Jan 2009 at 05:16
When we moved to the South, I never understood the whole Friday night high school football fascination. I certainly could not get over the fact that the local TV news would post scores and highlights. I mean, it is HIGH SCHOOL for christsake. I suppose when there is nothing to do in a town but drink, fuck or play football they will highlight the activity that is actually age-appropriate.
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by Gypsy
28 Jan 2009 at 06:10
That is a truly excellent show. I’ve only seen the first season — I watched in online. But I’m eager to see the rest. Such good stuff.
And you know I get that southern football stuff, for sure. I grew up in the town that Bobby built.
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by Jud
28 Jan 2009 at 06:55
I never got into the show, but whatever.
For “The Office”, NBC.com or Hulu.com for the most recent episodes. Check it out. Watch them at work.
And you got to see JC live? Amazing. That must have been a fun time.
by maggie, dammit
28 Jan 2009 at 08:19
I’m not gonna lie, when I saw your post title I immediately clicked over and my heart started beating uncontrollably and my stupid Internet connection could NOT LOAD YOUR BLOG FAST ENOUGH because the truth is I am madly in love with this series — I mean, flat-out straight-up obsessed — and it kills me that people don’t know about it. I think it’s the most poorly packaged and marketed series out there and that’s why nobody takes it seriously. In my humble opinion, Friday Night Lights has superior casting, acting, writing, cinematography, and soundtrack. I wish people would watch it. If there is no season four, America is dead to me. I mean it.
Off to regulate my breathing and give this post a proper read.
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by maggie, dammit
28 Jan 2009 at 08:30
Back.
Hm.
Lovely read, and I’m glad you are able to see the beauty. I still live in my devil town, and it’s giving me some fits lately. I hope to feel as you feel one day.
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by yellojkt
28 Jan 2009 at 11:48
Georgians love their football. I worked with a guy in Atlanta that followed Warner-Robbins with all his heart and soul. The Warner-Robbins/Valdosta game would be front page sports in the AJC.
You are very lucky to get out of Lake City. I never stopped there except to buy grapefruit.
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by admin
28 Jan 2009 at 12:40
Angel – Dr. O’C was wondering how many high school football players get hurt each year like Jason Street did, I don’t know the answer. But I guess we now know there’s at least one.
Bluestreak – I know what you mean. Living abroad puts it all in a bit of perspective doesn’t it?
Tys – I didn’t know there was a movie. Will have to check it out. You should try to watch the show, apparently it’s ratings are crap. It’s a damn shame because it’s some of the best TV I’ve seen in a while.
Headbang – So, I take it you don’t get back to PA much. Kicking Santorum out was one of the best things Pennsylvania’s ever done.
Ariza – Do you think Adelaide’s narrow and insular? Go visit south Georgia.
Nichole – It’s fantastic isn’t it? Who’s your favorite? I like Riggins, the troubled but big-hearted fullback.
Agnes – I do like Border Security. A lot. And I hate being titillated as well.
Muskrat – Definitely watch it. You’re a Southerner, you won’t be able to help liking it.
I’ve been wondering about your sexuality lately. The wrestling nails it down. Homo.
Mongola – No, thank you.
Southern – Good to see a new reader! Hurrah! And thanks for adding me to your blogroll. Not strictly to the point, but I do love some country music. And food. And people.
Theresa – One of my favorite parts of FNL is when the coach’s wife – also the guidance counselor – tells one of the players that he has to do his own homework and needs to learn things “because it’s good for the world.”
TUB – I know. I like the troubled blonde. And the coach’s wife for that matter.
Courtney – I may check out 30 Rock next, I’ve heard great things about it.
HIF – Who wrote the book?
April – We totally got hooked on The West Wing during Sinead’s late pregnancy. I got into the Sopranos on DVD after Zach was born. Check out Friday Night Lights – the first two seasons are on DVD.
NATUI – It’s a southern thang.
Gypsy – One of my high school’s biggest rivalries was with Tallahassee Leon.
Jud – Bastards at NBC and Hulu limit their videos to the US. That’s OK, there are other means.
Maggie – What the hell are people watching? American Idol? The Biggest Loser? I don’t get it.
Yello – You didn’t miss a a thing.
by muskrat
28 Jan 2009 at 12:47
Dear Chris, You’re an asshole. Got it?
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by Coal Miner's Granddaughter
28 Jan 2009 at 12:48
I wish I could find that sort of positive through the negative of South Charleston, WV. Great post, hon.
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by admin
28 Jan 2009 at 12:52
Funny, Muskrat, I’ve been told that before. I’m just saying – what with the bare butt and the ‘Snuggli’, I mean I don’t like to jump to conclusions…
by admin
28 Jan 2009 at 12:57
Muskrat – We should have some sort of blogging duel. For our honor. I just don’t know how a internet based duel would manifest itself.
by flutter
28 Jan 2009 at 13:52
I am so in love with Friday Night Lights, it’s not even funny. Now I am jonesing for an episode
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by hereinfranklin
28 Jan 2009 at 23:15
Written by H.G. Bissinger–true story
of one season spent with the Permian
Panthers in Odessa, Tex. in the late
’80s. Great read.
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by Jill/Twipply Skwood
29 Jan 2009 at 06:54
You know, I thought *everyone* hated their hometown until I moved to Houston. It turns out some people stick around here on purpose. *shrug shrug* I heard that Friday Night show was good. Maybe I’ll have to try it one day.
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by admin
29 Jan 2009 at 08:20
CMGD _ Don’t get me wrong, I’ve got no positive feeling toward my hometown, just come to terms with the fact that I wouldn’t be who I am without ten years spent stagnating there.
Flutter – Glad to know that somebody is watching it!
HIF – I’ll definitely check it out!
Jill – Most of the people with whom I went to high school still live within 50 miles of Lake City. At least Houston is a city!
by Nichole
29 Jan 2009 at 12:47
You forgot one very important Riggins trait: Hot.
(Saracen’s my favorite player. Coach T is my favorite person on TV ever. Mrs. T is a close second. I love Landry, too.)
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by Joe
04 Feb 2009 at 00:57
Have you thought of sending a printout of this post to Lake City’s local newspaper opinion section? You know, as a ‘thank you’ to the town?