Do you know what music you want played at your funeral? I do. Not because I’m obsessed with death or anything, far from it. But if you don’t plan for these things some well-meaning relative will play “Goodbye My Lover” by James Frickin’ Blunt or Robbie Williams’ “Angels” or “The Wind Beneath My Wings” for the love of god. Do you really want Bette Midler singing you into the afterlife?
My choice of funeral music: The Pogues‘ “Body of an American”. I’m going to ask you all to remember this in case Dr. O’C slips into dementia and forgets. And if any of you happen to be at my funeral and anyone tries to play James Blunt, please beat them senseless for me.
I came to love The Pogues a bit late. I had certainly heard some of their music along the way – “I’m A Man You Don’t Meet Every Day” was on a mix CD with which I successfully wooed Dr. O’C – but I didn’t really come to love it until we moved to Britain. Dr. O’C and I were in a small pub in Oxford one night playing pool. I was scanning the jukebox and came across “Body of an American”. I don’t know if I had ever heard it before, but I heard it that night and I got it. It was early on in our time in Oxford and I was feeling displaced and a little bit homesick. Shane MacGowan’s raspy tale of the funeral of an Irish-American man’s last trip struck me to the quick that night and when I got home, I hit the iTunes store for all The Pogues I could find.
The B-side of “Body of an American” is the epic and dirge-like “The Band Played Waltzing Matilda”. Because I had enjoyed the A-side so much, I played the B. We nearly got kicked out of the pub as the bartender shouted “Bloody-fucking-hell! I get the “Body of an American” part, but did you have to play this shite?!” I guess we should have explained that Dr. O’C was Australian.
Since that immersion into the music of these Irish folk-punk troubadours, I’ve become a proper devotee of the music of MacGowan and Co. They came out of London in the late 1970’s, heavily influenced by The Ramones and The Clash. They put out three great records in the mid to late 80’s before MacGowan’s substance abuse started to tear the group apart. They’re still around and pop up for a reunion tour every now and again, but have never hit the creative peak that they were on in the 80’s. MacGowan himself is quite the character. If you want a cautionary tale about the perils of the rock and roll lifestyle, do a Google Image search. Never a handsome man, after thirty plus years of heavy drug and booze use, MacGowan is a walking anti-drug advertisement. It’s a shame, really, because the creative genius of the 80’s has been reduced to a parody of an Irish drunk in the 21st century.
But at their prime, The Pogues seamlessly recombined traditional Irish folk music with the nascent punk rock coming out of London and New York. You may not know it when you consider all the Pogues rip-off bands that followed – The Drop-Kick Murphys, Flogging Molly and the Real (?) McKenzies – but at the time this was a truly original musical style and a lot of people had trouble putting The Pogues in a musical box. What this means is that in their prime, The Pogues didn’t have a ton of commercial success. Most people, your underwhelming correspondent included, learned to love The Pogues after their time.
The thing that makes a band great for me is that they pop up frequently in the soundtrack of my life. And since my late discovery of The Pogues in 2004, they’ve featured more than nearly any other band. There’s “Fairytale of New York” to remind me that Christmas need not be about angels, mangers and Wal-Mart. The faintly ironic “Sunnyside of the Street” kept me sane through the gloomy British winters for a few years and “South Australia” was one of the tunes on repeat for the long trip Down Under. “Whiskey You’re The Devil” – well that’s a story for another day.
But it’s “Body of an American” that really makes The Pogues great for me.
This morning on the harbour
When I said goodbye to you
I remember how I swore
That I’d come back to you one day
And as the sunset came to meet
The evening on the hill
I told you I’d always love
I always did and I always willFare thee well gone away
There’s nothing left to say
‘cept to say adieu
To your eyes as blue
As the water in the bay
And to big Jim Dwyer
The man of wire
Who was often heard to say
I’m a free born man of the USA…
By no means is it a perfect song for me – I’m neither big nor blue-eyed, I have – in my time – had time for drink, and I certainly am not a fighter. But it’s that penultimate verse and the last few lines that get right to me and make this the song that I want played when I leave for my last trip.
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If you’re not already a fan, a good place to start with The Pogues is the 2001 greatest hits compilation “The Very Best of The Pogues”, which you can pick up at
. There isn’t a bad track on the album.
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by yellojkt
29 Jan 2009 at 14:29
I only heard “Fairytale of New York” for the first time last year. I will have to give their other stuff a try.
by heather
29 Jan 2009 at 15:03
“You gotta walk that mile honey child.
I’ll show you what is hip, as we walk down Lesson strip & I’ll do it for the ghost of a smile…”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYmB4Qej9U4
Some of us named there blogs for The Pogues. Rum, Sodomy, & the Lash is really beautiful. I have a soft spot for Hell’s Ditch too.
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by tysdaddy
29 Jan 2009 at 15:04
When my uncle died several years ago, I gave the eulogy at his funeral. I was in a rush to get there; had van troubles on the way. And, of course, I was a bit stressed out with grief.
His favorite movies were the ones about Rocky Balboa. His favorite song for years? Eye of the Tiger. I had it with me that day, burned to a CD for my son to listen to.
It never occurred to me to play it at his funeral. It was several days later that I realized what I’d done, and I felt like shit. He never said he wanted it played. He wasn’t that type of guy. But he would have wanted it, even in such a sacred place as a church in front of a bunch of really old religious types.
So one day the following spring, I put the song on my laptop, went to his gravesite, and played it for him.
Print this post out and put it someplace very safe yet discoverable in the event of your early demise . . .
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by heather
29 Jan 2009 at 15:04
Oh we sing “Whiskey in the Jar” as a family!
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by People in the Sun
29 Jan 2009 at 15:29
I was never into them. Just never happened. But Honey has always loved them. She even saw him a few years ago in 9:30 Club in DC, where apparently he almost accidently hung himself.
Here’s a clip from The Wire:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVznnoptsmM
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by Ginny
29 Jan 2009 at 16:35
We’ve had this conversation many times, for the same reason. The husband knows that should I predecease him (he smokes and eats no vegetables, but still, I could get hit by a car), he is to play “Blue Skies” by Willie Nelson.
(At his funeral, I’ll be playing “Blitzkrieg Bop”. Because his tombstone will be emblazoned with “Hey, Ho, Let’s Go.”)
He says I’m morbid, I say I’m prepared. We’ll have to agree to disagree.
Ginnys last blog post..Green
by mongoliangirl
29 Jan 2009 at 16:39
I think I might like ‘MaNamANah’ by The Muppets. Oh, and a little slide show of every photo ever taken of me crossing my eyes, flipping someone off, or pretending I’m on the verge of showing my tatas to the camera.
by kitty
29 Jan 2009 at 18:15
I’ve always thought the Smith’s ‘How Soon Is Now’ for the dance-ability. Maybe Jeff Buckley’s ‘Last Goodbye’ to get the tears flowing. But the Pogues or the Ramones is a Rip Snorter of an idea. Best we get it out in the open, because if this heat goes on much longer you’ll be lowering me down sooner rather than later…..
by holly*
29 Jan 2009 at 19:08
obsessed with death? if you find a little time, watch the series “dead like me”. only 2 seasons, but quite entertaining.
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by suzer
29 Jan 2009 at 19:40
Fairytale in New York is my fav Pogues song. I heard it a few times while on the tour of Ireland where I met my hubs so I think of it as our song.
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by Angel
29 Jan 2009 at 21:21
Your blog is definitely becoming more to me than just an interesting read as of late because I’m using it for music reference more and more. If you want good talented artists these days, you have to look for the obscure. There just doesn’t seem to be anything worth hearing in the mainstream musical world. I’ve never been one of those people who protests the popular. I don’t care if you’re commercial or not. All that matters to me is that I like what I hear. I’ve never cared if a person/band has sold a billion records or five.
Well, it isn’t even that no one has any talent, it’s more that they all sound the same! All the bubblegum pop groups sound the same. All the rebel with clues groups sound the same. It’s so rare for me to actually be listening to a radio/satellite station these days and actually hear something that I like well enough to catch my attention at all.
So when I want something new to listen to, I just come here and go through your archives, etc! Thanks!
by Prefers Her Fantasy Life
29 Jan 2009 at 23:59
I’m a huge Pogues’ fan. HUGE (also love the DKM and Flogging Molly). The Pogues are one of the few bands I’ve not seen live. When they’re in the states, they usually play in NY and DC and I always try to rally people to go, but they come up with lame excuses like work and school and kids.
I hear Shane usually f*cks up the show, but still….he’s f*ckin’ Shane MacGowan and I’d go in a heartbeat.
Have you ever heard the Greenland Whale Fishers? The lead singer’s voice reminds me a bit of Shane.
Cheers! or as they say in Shane’s homeland, Slainte!
ps Two days til Tweedy.
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by The Unbearable Banishment
30 Jan 2009 at 00:13
“Fairytale…” always makes me glad that I spent a sizeable chunk of my life in New York. I don’t just wait for Christmas to cue it up.
by Father Muskrat
30 Jan 2009 at 00:25
I too like “Fairytale…” but haven’t heard much of their other work. I’ll have to remedy that. I was introduced to them in 1994 (too late as well) at an Irish pub in Nashville called Mulligan’s. They played some covers, and then my friend bought a Pogues CD (that’s a compact disc to those readers born in the ’90s).
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by Teri
30 Jan 2009 at 01:20
I am not musicly cool, but have cool friends. And I am glad I can learn new things from her (Heather) and you. I will look into some new stuff. Thanks. Thanks for the comment on my blog. Cheers!
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by Jud
30 Jan 2009 at 01:23
I love the Pogues. Whether it is their renditions of classics like “The Irish Rover” or “Galway Races” to their own stuff, such as “Thousand are Sailing.”
At my funeral, I hope the song “Keg on my Coffin” by the Push Stars is played.
If you ever make it to the Deep South, or I took Oz, we certainly need to crank up some tunes and knock back some beers. The PBR is chilling even as I type.
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by Jason O.
30 Jan 2009 at 01:31
Beethoven’s Coriolan Overture.
Humanity (or one human) forever wages a battle that we will never win against omnipotent fate/fortune followed by inevitable death. Yet we are still compelled to strive.
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by mickey
30 Jan 2009 at 01:49
We’ve got a local Pogues rip-off band. I saw them once last year. Not bad. Kind of cartoonish in their devotion to the “image,” but not bad.
Every band is a rip-off of someone else to some degree anyway. That just happens to be a rather distinct style that is easier to pick out than most.
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by we_be_toys
30 Jan 2009 at 02:29
I love the Pogues! I remember them from my college radio days – sigh! But boy howdy, does McGowan need some dental work! Those teeth are bad, even by UK standards!
Great post – reminds me of my brother-in-law. The man has enough records and CDs to start his own radio station, and he knows every one by heart.
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by courtney
30 Jan 2009 at 03:06
The Pogues make me want to drink some whiskey and punch an Englishman.
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by Rol
30 Jan 2009 at 03:09
Love a bit of Shane.
At my own funeral, I want ‘Do You Realise?’ by the Flaming Lips, ‘Witchita Lineman’ by Glenn Campbell, and ‘There Is A Place In Hell For Me And My Friends’ by Morrissey.
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by jams O'Donnell
30 Jan 2009 at 06:55
I was never a big fan of the Pogues myself. Fir my funeral I want Airscape by Robyn Hitchcock
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by admin
30 Jan 2009 at 08:57
Yello – You should do, if you like Fairytale, you’ll like the rest.
Heather – I never made that connection! Very cool.
PIS – Cool clip. Obviously I’m not the first one to have thought of this. I’ve never seen “The Wire” but hear great things about it. Do you recommend it?
Tys – Great story. “Eye of the Tiger”? Why not.
Ginny – Both great choices. I’m glad I’m not the only one who is ‘prepared’.
Mongola – Can I come to your funeral?
Kitty – I hear you. It was cute for a while, but it’s starting to get a bit old now. “How Soon Is Now” is a great choice.
Holly – Never heard of that series. I’ll check it out.
Angel – Glad to be of service. Hope I don’t lead you astray
Prefers – I’ve never seen them live either and I don’t know that I would make a huge effort to do so. Punk bands don’t age well.
TUB – Fairytale makes me wish I had spent more time in NYC.
Father – I doubt that I have any readers that were born in the 1990s. They probably wouldn’t understand my English. You know – punctuation.
Teri – I’m not any kind of cool.
Jud – I love the Pogues version of Irish Rover as well – the duet with the Dubliners? Awesome. Did you know that the same tune, in Scotland, is called the Scottish Rover? I have a Scottish friend who plays the accordion. We were at a Hogmanay party and he was playing what was recognizably, “The Irish Rover”. I exclaimed that I knew that song – “The Irish Rover”. He spat, “No, ye daft cunt – the Scottish Rover”.
Jason – Way to bring up the tone of the dialogue around here!
Mickey – You’re right, everyone’s a rip-off of somebody else. The Pogues just melded Irish folk and punk. But there’s a fine line between being derivative and being a tribute act and I think some of these ‘Irish’ punk bands veer too much toward the latter.
We Be Toys – He ain’t a looker, is he?
Courtney – Do you punch a lot of Brits?
Rol – Great choices!
Jams – I don’t know that track. I never got into Robyn Hitchcock.
by ms picket to you
30 Jan 2009 at 11:17
i want dylan love minus zero. because i just love it. and wish someone would sing it to me. it works for the hackles.
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by Cat
30 Jan 2009 at 13:39
I’ve never really thought about the music to be played at my funeral, but now I’m probably going to stay up all night making a play list. I think I might include Haunted which I guess is sort of a Pogues version of sappy love song.
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by NATUI
30 Jan 2009 at 14:39
I had my introduction in Sweden from my Canadian Newfie friend (the same who introduced me to Great Big Sea). Since in am in the DC area and Prefers Her Fantasy Life says they come to DC, I may have to see if I can catch a show.
As for the music played at my funeral, Hubbie and I haven’t had that discussion since our college days. Will have to think about that one.
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by arizaphale
30 Jan 2009 at 18:30
1) Mark Knopfler: Going Home (Theme from Local Hero)
2) lots of hymns.
Please do NOT say you won’t be coming!
Oh and how did that toothless man score that lovely young lady as a fiancee? Don’t answer that.
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by alice
31 Jan 2009 at 13:28
Emmie (formerly known as Dear Daughter) has tickets to see the Pogues in New York over spring break. She is beside herself with excitement.
I think we raised that girl up right good.
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by alice
31 Jan 2009 at 13:35
(btw, I also have already started a list of funeral songs, and I was just telling the dear spouse about it the other night. He thought I was a bit batty at first, but after some discussion, I think he was starting his own mental list by the end of the evening. And I’ll bet you ten bucks he puts it down in writing by the end of the weekend.
Number One with a bullet: Thunder Road. It was there for me during the turmoil of the college years, was the top hit in Emmie’s nursery, and it would be a beautiful way to see me off on the next grand adventure…)
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by Xbox4NappyRash
31 Jan 2009 at 22:44
‘Body of an American’ makes the hair stand up on my neck, Shane MacGowan is a poet.
‘Rainy night in Soho’ gives me the shivers every single time.
He makes me want to drink more.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SirutCHZ-QI
This clip of an ‘interview’ after a show makes me laugh every time.
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by admin
03 Feb 2009 at 14:43
Ms Picket – Whatever it takes to lower those hackles.
Cat – I love ‘Haunted’. I think that was on my first wooing CD to Dr. O’C as well.
NATUI – Don’t you think it would be more appropriate to have it now that you’re a bit, erm, older?
Ariza – I guess some gals aren’t hung up on looks?
Alice – Sounds like y’all did a good job. “Thunder Road” is a good call:
Hey what else can we do now ?
Except roll down the window
And let the wind blow
Back your hair
Xbox – Rainy Night in Soho is another great one.
by People in the Sun
15 Feb 2009 at 13:13
Oops–
I didn’t realize you asked me a question.
I do recommend it. It took me a while to want to watch it, though, even though I live in Baltimore (the show is set in Baltimore). But when I started working in the booking station and going to court and talking to these people, I knew I had to watch the show.
First I watched “The Corner,” which is also an HBO show about drugs in Baltimore. It was made by the same people, and it was really good (and everything was real now that I was talking to heroin addicts all day). And then I started watching “The Wire.” — It’s good in a way other HBO shows are, which means it has a good plot and characters, but it also has a world view, knowhatamean?
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