Dr. O’C and I have to find a new place to live. Our lease is up and we’ve decided to rent for a little while longer in the hopes that the remarkably stable Australian housing market bottoms out like it has every where else in the world. It’s always a pain in the ass to find a new rental house, but it’s a blessing really because our living situation was driving me slowly insane(r).
Because I’m easily distracted, I’ve been daydreaming at some of the rental houses that I’ve occupied in my time rather than looking for a new one*. There was the roach and (later) gecko infested studio in Tallahassee. There was the sprawling 1920’s behemoth on Melbourne Street in Columbia that Dr. O’C and I rented for next to nothing in my last couple of years of grad school. And the most expensive house I’ve ever lived in, a Victorian tenement house in Oxford that was so narrow I could almost touch both walls with my arms spread.
But the house that sticks in my mind the most was an old tin-roofed servants cottage behind an Edwardian mansion in Athens, Georgia. I lived there for a couple of years while finishing up my bachelor’s degree at the University of Georgia. The house dated from the early 1900s. There were two rooms and a small front porch with an afterthought of a kitchen carved in at some point in the 1950’s. There was no air-conditioning and the back yard was shared with the owners of the big house and their two ridiculously aggressive Dobermans. It was broiling in the summer and frigid in the winter, but I loved it. It was quietly tucked away in the trees with only a little dirt drive off a side road, so it afforded me a perception of blessed isolation.
The isolation was only an illusion, really. I was only about 200 meters from one of the biggest sorority houses in town. My landlord busted me for growing a few marijuana plants on the side of the house. And my house got broken into. Twice. The latter was kind of my fault. (Actually, the former was as well). You see, I rarely locked my door. I lived in a world that hadn’t existed for about fifty years if ever. Unfortunately most everyone else lived in a world in which if you didn’t lock your doors all your stuff got stolen. After the first break-in, I probably should have learned my lesson. But at that time, I could almost see up to the poverty level from where I lived, so I didn’t have much to steal and after a week or so of vigilance I reverted to form.
The second robbery was a bit scarier. Someone came into the house while I was sleeping. I woke up and saw a shadowy form rummaging around my living room. I jumped out of bed, buck naked and yelling. The guy bolted and I chased him, still naked, half-way down my drive until I realized that I was coming into the line of view of the sorority house.
The day after the second break-in, I decided that I needed to do something to protect myself. Now, locking the door would have been a good start but common sense has never been my strong suit. I should preface the rest of this story by saying that I used to drink a lot. And by a lot, I mean a lot. I was convinced that life’s hard decisions could be made with more clarity after about half a fifth of Jack Daniels. So I sat out on my rickety front porch and got down to some serious thinking and drinking.
At about 2 in the morning I decided that what I needed was a gun.
The problem was acquisition. The State of Georgia in the mid-1990’s did not have the nation’s most stringent gun control laws, but you did need at least a driver’s license to buy one. I had lost my driver’s license a couple of years ago due to some unpleasantness in Seattle, but what I did have was some dodgy friends. I talked to my bartender friend who I knew was a gun nut. She introduced me to a ‘business associate’ of her boyfriend who lived off the grid on the east side of town. After a bit of drinking he decided that I was OK, and he could help me out.
I worked in a downtown coffee shop at the time and just before close a couple of nights later, the Business Associate came in and asked to talk to me in private. Five minutes in the men’s room, two hundred dollars poorer and I had a shiny, oily and delightfully loaded Cobra .22 calibre pistol in the left pocket of my jeans.
I’ve got to admit that I felt pretty butch walking home from work that night with a pistol in my pocket. The weight of it, the secrecy of it, the power of it was all absolutely thrilling. I couldn’t stop touching it, feeling the slick steel. I got home and put it gently in my bedside table, got a tumbler full of whiskey and a book and lay down for bed.
And I didn’t sleep.
My mind wouldn’t shut down. I kept thinking about the gun. Would I really be able to use it if the robber came back? Would I be able to aim it and squeeze the trigger? Would it fire? Should I test fire it? Maybe at the landlord’s dog? What would happen if I could do everything right and I hit the robber? Would I go to jail? What if I shot myself while I was messing around with it?
About four a.m., overwrought and exhausted, I got out of bed, grabbed the gun and headed out the door. I headed through campus down past the stadium to the woods on the east side of the campus. I hit the Oconee River pulled the gun from my pocket – gleaming darkly in the moonlight. I paused – a long heart beat – and tossed it into the muddy river.
After that I just made sure to lock the door.
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*Anyone in the Adelaide that has a house to rent (between the CBD and Flinders) or knows of a good one, please do let us know!
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by Angel
20 Mar 2009 at 20:14
Wow. I’m really glad you threw that thing away. I wouldn’t want to imagine what might have happened if you’d held onto it at that time in your life. When you write about those times, you remind me a lot of my brother. Well, my brother if he’d cared about anything in life at all and even pretended to get an education. Him having a gun would have resulted in something horrible.
That little house sounds darling. It sounds like a place someone would hide to write the all-American novel or something. Or at the very least, the perfect setting IN the all-American novel.
My opinion on the rental thing, even though it wasn’t solicited? Rent for as long as you want. Even though I love my home, it’s my dream come true, the responsibilities of owning are more than overwhelming sometimes. And with both you and Dr. O’C settling into your careers there, boy Z still being so young, and a tiny one on the way… yeah, what you don’t need right now is worry about the upkeep of house!
by muskrat
20 Mar 2009 at 23:13
Damnation, dude! I’m waiting for a break-in where I am. 240 burglaries last year in our gentrifying hood, but so far, none within a stone’s throw of my front porch. I too sleep next to heat, but I’m not going to toss it into the ‘hooch any time soon.
I hope y’all find a great home soon.
And by the way, had you gone to a genteel institution like the U. of Alabama, you could’ve left your doors unlocked with no problem.
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by The Unbearable Banishment
20 Mar 2009 at 23:32
Renting can be incredibly liberating. If nothing else, it forces you to keep your material possessions at an absolute minimum.
I received a pistol marksmen’s ribbon while in the Coast Guard but I have never—and will never—own a gun. They scare me. I find people who love guns kind of scary, too.
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by Coal Miner's Granddaughter
20 Mar 2009 at 23:45
Growing up the daughter of a policeman, I’ve always locked my doors to the extreme… and felt comfortable around guns. My father’s service revolver was loaded and within arms reach whenever he was home. So, from my perspective, locking your doors was the first thing you should have done. And keep the gun in a nightstand drawer with a trigger lock? The second thing.
But, hey, each person needs to do what is good for them, not what is good for someone else, right?
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by Cat
21 Mar 2009 at 00:30
You could have saved yourself a step and just thrown the $200 into the Oconee. That’s what I think about if the urge to gamble ever hits me, just skip the casino or lottery ticket buying step and flush the money down the toilet.
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by Teri
21 Mar 2009 at 01:06
Wow. I never would have guessed you would have been through such an ordeal. Glad you didn’t get hurt. You could have kept the gun, but locking the door seems like a much more logical way to go.
Our new town is one where you could almost not lock the door. It’s strange being in that kind of environment. We still lock our doors, but we could probably leave them unlocked.
Hope things are going well. Best wishes to your family.
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by courtney
21 Mar 2009 at 01:13
Wow, what a story. When you got to the part about being a gun nut, for a moment I thought the spirit of Hunter S. Thompson had invaded you. (Seriously, he could have written this.)
Never been big on guns myself. I think most guns out there probably belong in a river. At any rate, I’ll nevereverevereverever own one.
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by chris
21 Mar 2009 at 01:27
Yeah, I have frequently thought about gun ownership, especially several years ago when I lived alone and there were a slew of home invasions in one year in the general area in which I lived.
For me it’s one of those things that sounds good in theory, and I know I would be able to take a life to protect myself or my home but the stats on how home guns usually end up used are not favorable.
Now a good medieval mace, that could be fun.
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by rassles
21 Mar 2009 at 01:33
I love this, because after the second robbery in my ghetto ass college house we considered locking the front door, and then decided against it.
Nothing huge was ever taken. Shoes, pot, a dvd player that I got for free from a contest at Blockbuster. Then one of the roommates brought her family dog into the mix, and she hated black people (the dog, not the roommate), so there was constant barking, and no one robbed us again.
The End.
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by mongoliangirl
21 Mar 2009 at 01:37
Melbourne in Columbia. What a yummy neighborhood!
Good luck finding a place. I can’t say I am going to wish for the Austrailian housing market to crash for you. Well, maybe just for that one moment when you see the place you like.
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by Southern (in)Sanity
21 Mar 2009 at 02:23
Locking the doors was probably much easier than the gun – especially considering how you obtained it.
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by Noble Savage
21 Mar 2009 at 03:21
Jesus H. Glad you chucked that killing machine in the river.
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by Xbox4NappyRash
21 Mar 2009 at 03:38
Nuts. A complete other world.
And you HAVE to move into the caravan park in Summer bay.
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by HereInFranklin
21 Mar 2009 at 03:57
Please please tell us the story of how you lost (?) your driver’s license in Seattle. Also, none of my college places in Knoxville ever had a/c either…all that heat and humidity definitely leads to excessive front porch drinking.
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by Katie Lauren
21 Mar 2009 at 09:18
Waking up to someone in my house has always been one of my biggest fears. Right below owning a gun and thinking of all the stupid shit i might do with it.
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by alice
21 Mar 2009 at 12:11
I didn’t even touch a gun for the first time until I was in my mid-40s. I’ve never held, much less fired, one. They scare the shit out of me. I have no doubt if there were one in this house, for “security,” I’d end up being shot with it.
I still remember the first time I saw a gun. I was probably 10-ish, and a cop came by the house to see my father (who is an attorney). The cop had the tripped out cop belt, with the walkie-talkie and cuffs and… well, nunchucks, and/or whatever the hell else they keep on there… and a GUN. That dude might kill somebody with that thing!
I couldn’t take my eyes off of that gun. The whole idea of it freaked me the fuck out.
I can’t remember how long it was until I saw another one, but by that time, I realized that guns and me were probably not a good mix.
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by lora
21 Mar 2009 at 12:54
before I had Jake I never locked the doors. And I live smack in PHiladelphia. Luckily nothing ever happened.
And I’m not knocking BlogHer, I just had no idea what it was.
AND I like Twitter but hate that everyone has it. I might break up with it sometime this year
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by Agnes
21 Mar 2009 at 13:04
I fired a shotgun once. My best friend goes hunting sometimes, and he gave me a go one day. It felt really, really weird, but because I never thought I’d ever shoot a gun it felt kinda cool too. For about 5 seconds.
by Jacob
21 Mar 2009 at 13:15
Yeah, handguns and large quantities of alcohol probably don’t make for good bedfellows. Probably best you did throw it in the river.
I actually own a couple of guns. I’ve have the .22 single shot rifle my great-grandfather owned (and I hunted squirrels with from my bedroom window, using my headboard as a gun rest), a .410 shotgun, and a .243 deer rifle.
I’ve never considered any of them as personal defense. You’re more likely to get yourself killed than defend yourself. I have them because I hunted as a kid until I quit because of boredom around 17. I keep them because I like things that go boom, although I haven’t even fired the two rifles in almost a decade. The shotgun is good for firing up into the air to scare stray dogs away from my chickens.
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by kitty
21 Mar 2009 at 18:22
Gun purchases. Excessive drinking. Unmentionable incidences resulting in loss of licence. Growing of illegal substances and streaking a sorority house. My wordy lordy, I didn’t realise you were dangerous fellow.
Good luck with the house hunting. I am so glad I will never have to dabble in the rental market ever again. I will hope for market fall-out for you.
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by KathyF
21 Mar 2009 at 18:37
That’s a great story. Unfortunately you’ll never be able to run for office in the United States, but that’s a small price to pay.
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by jessica
22 Mar 2009 at 03:04
I loved that story as well. I wish I could have seen your old place. I love history and old buildings.
Good idea tossing the gun. Who knows, you might have been inside some big state prison sharing this with us instead
Hope you find a new place soon. Just be happy you’re not in L.A.
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by Joe @ Irrational Dad
22 Mar 2009 at 03:11
The ONLY time that my doors aren’t locked is when I’m opening them. It’s pure habit and muscle memory now to lock my doors. As a matter of fact, I’m turning the locking mechanism on the door knob as I’m swinging it shut. Before I go to bed each night, I check the doors one last time, just to be sure.
I think it’s residual effect from having a house burglarized when I was a child. It was one of the extremely rare times that my family took the dogs with us somewhere. Whoever broke in slashed my parents’ waterbed, which of course was on the second floor and ruined family photos on the first floor. They stole a lot of stuff and destroyed even more. Oh, and spray painted something along the lines of “Get the f*** out” on a wall.
For my entire adult life, I’ve never lived in a dwelling that wasn’t locked, whether I was home or not.
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by ms picket to you
22 Mar 2009 at 08:44
i only lived one place where i absolutely had to lock the doors. never had a problem there, not once, probably because as it turned out we lived next to the boss (mob-style) of the ‘hood. i guess he liked us. happy hunting.
PS: the tin roof yellow one up there? yummy.
by arizaphale
22 Mar 2009 at 09:53
There ya see? Under all that booze, dope and testosterone there was a nice, intelligent family man waiting to emerge.
I am of an age where guns have been at both ends of the spectrum in our society. Growing up, friends with properties all had guns for shooting rabbits and roos. ‘Spotlighting’ was a common family, night time outing in the country. Even the BA’s dad (a confirmed metro-sexual) owned a long, pointy gun of some sort.Then around the late eighties the law changed and there was an amnesty on guns; this was followed by the Port Arthur massacre after which the laws became very stringent indeed. Now, the very thought of guns is anathema. Interesting to read the variety of cultural views on this comment thread.
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by admin
22 Mar 2009 at 20:25
Angel – At some point one has to buy. It’s the American dream. Australian dream as well, I guess.
Muskrat – If I had gone to school in Tuscaloosa it wouldn’t have been my possessions I would have been worried about. Those drunken, horny Tide boys are scary fuckers.
TUB – I’m with you on gun owners, especially the zealots. They’re scarier than a drunk Alabama frat boy.
CMGD – I don’t know. No comment. I’m pretty solidly in the school of thought that guns in the home are deadly accidents waiting to happen.
Cat – I know. At least then I would have gotten a good night’s sleep.
Teri – It wasn’t the last time I’ve been broken in to. I kind of have bad luck with robbers.
Courtney – I’m with you. I’m in a Hunter-esque mood this week. Wait for my guest post next week.
Chris – How about a battle axe?
Rassle – I had a deaf coon hound while I was living in Athens that hated black people, it was all a bit too much of a cliche though. I hated that dog.
Mongola – We’ve found the most beautiful rental house I’ve ever seen and I’ve used every ounce of charm I have to convince the landlord to rent it to us, but she’s making us wait until Monday or damn Tuesday to decide.
SIS – I think I obtained that gun the way that a fair percentage of gun owners do.
NS – Me too!
Xbox – The deep South is a whacky but incredibly charismatic place.
HIF – That one’s not so interesting, I’m afraid.
Katie – Yeah, I’d rather take my chances with the occasional burgler.
Alice – I’ve got to say, though, they are good fun to fire.
Lora – I’ve already broken up with Twitter and Facebook may be next if I don’t keep getting hassled about my 20 year high school reunion. Yeah, I’m really going to fly 10,000 miles to hang out with people I hated 20 years ago by the city pool. Sign me the hell up.
Agnes – Come on, 5 seconds? Longer than that.
Jacob – What happens to the pellets when you fire them in the air? Don’t they come down at an even greater velocity?
Kitty – You don’t know the half of it.
Kathy – I burned that bridge a long time ago!
Jess – I think I have a photo somewhere, I’ll try and dig it up.
Joe – That sounds more like a hate crime than a robbery? Did your parents piss off the Klan or something?
Mis Picket – Mine was nowhere near as nice as the yellow one.
Ariza – I was wondering about guns here. In Britain nobody has a gun, but they stab people instead. I’ve heard of a few gun killings since I’ve been here so I knew there must be some around.
by Florida Girl In Sydney
22 Mar 2009 at 20:35
And I kept thinking– he got a gun? really? he doesn’t seem like the type? Relieved to hear you chucked it.
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by Jill/Twipply Skwood
23 Mar 2009 at 01:54
Wow! Great story & nice ending! You could always move to Vermont. In high school I used to leave my keys in my ignition when I went to parties, in case someone needed to move my car and I didn’t feel like going out in the cold.
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by bluestreak
07 Apr 2009 at 04:08
Awesome post, Freeman. I love that you threw it away.
I hate locking doors. Here, in most houses, you are jailed in with bars on the windows. I say it’s paranoia. I miss always coming home to an unlocked house and not worrying. Probably careless, but it was nice.
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