Saturday was our two year immi-versary, the anniversary of our immigration to Australia. I stumbled off of a 24 hour flight into to the blazing South Australian with Dr. O’C and a seven month old Boy Z. I’d never been to Australia and despite befriending several natives (including the one I had lived with for seven years) and doing extensive research into my Antipodean future home, I hadn’t a clue what to expect of the place. I was jobless, carless and clueless. It certainly wasn’t my first move, it wasn’t even my first international move. But I’ve never felt so lost.
We arrived the day before ANZAC Day. I hadn’t a clue what an ANZAC was, nevermind why he/she/it/they had a day. All I knew was that when I managed to wander my way down to the closest grocery store to the faceless suburb into which we had landed was that it was closed up tight.
Two years later I’m not quite as lost. Inexplicably I’ve still got Dr. O’C. I’ve got a two-and-a-half year old budding fascist dictator in Boy Z and his rapidly growing lieutenant, Not Max. I know my away around my adopted city like I’m a native. I’ve got a job that I love a car that Dr. O’C keeps bashing up and a place to lay my head with a sea view when I wake up. I even know where to buy a carton of milk on ANZAC Day.
More importantly, I’ve come to feel at home in my home. I don’t feel Australian, but I feel comfortable among the Australians. I feel a part of Australia, that I can participate in things Australian. I feel a part of, something that I haven’t in the six and a half years since I left the country of my birth.
And I can tell you about ANZAC day. It’s a day of remembrance for the Australian and (less importantly) New Zealand Army Corps that fought at Gallipoli in World War I. The Battle of Gallipoli involved allied British and French troops landing in Turkey in a futile attempt to take Constantinople from the Turks. It involved a significant Australian presence and something like 8,000 Australian casualties. They tell us on ANZAC Day, that Gallipoli helped to established Australian national identity. I find it a bit odd that a thrashing at the hands of the Turks marks the beginning of Australian national consciousness, but it’s one of those idiosyncrasies that make Australians such a winsome people.
So the groceries stores are closed and there are dawn services around the country and in Gallipoli. And we have biscuits. And football. And I’ve learned, on this my third ANZAC Day and the second anniversary of my arrival in this enchanting corner of the world, that if you get out of the way and let it, life keeps getting better from one year to the next.
April 2008

April 2009

April 2010

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A lot of people pay out old Rolf Harris and I think it’s a shame. He’s a national treasure, an Australian troubadour, he’s painted the Queen, he’s a Commander of the British Empire, for the love of god! And there can’t be much more Australian on ANZAC Day than dancing around the living room to “Waltzing Matilda” with the ANZAC Day Clash on in the background. Seriously, buy “The Best of Rolf Harris” from
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by Technobabe
25 Apr 2010 at 23:33
The last picture with Not Max looking at the camera is a great picture. I so like the look on is face. He is coming into his own, isn’t he? Cute way to describe the two little guys in this post: “two-and-a-half year old budding fascist dictator in Boy Z and his rapidly growing lieutenant, Not Max”. I thought you had been in Australia much longer. This is a great post sharing your initial trepidation and how far you have come today. As always, I ventured over to iTunes an listened to Rolf. My fave is Tie Me Kangaroo Down, I have listened to that so many years. What’s not to like in his songs?
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by jen
25 Apr 2010 at 23:34
i think we learn so much about ourselves when we move temporarily or permanently outside our home comfort zone.
we’re endlessly adaptable and changeable creatures, we humans.
happy move-iversary! happy anzac day! (love those anzac biscuits.)
by courtney
25 Apr 2010 at 23:56
Wow, it’s hard to believe we have been blogfriends for quite a while now. It doesn’t seem like two whole years since you moved there. Glad you’re making a nice little home for yourself there.
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by Gappy
26 Apr 2010 at 04:23
I love Rolf Harris! He played at Glastonbury one year and someone had a banner with, ‘Rolf, I want to didgereedoo ya’ on it, which made the 13 year old in me snort with laughter (oh dear.) He played ‘two little boys’ and everybody cried….
Are you British then Free Man? Or American?
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by People in the Sun
26 Apr 2010 at 05:01
Hey, I also saw Rolf Harris in Glastonbury! (but I wasn’t 13…)
And I know what you mean about being comfortable in your new place while never being a full member. I’m not an American. Even if I become a citizen I won’t really be an American. By now, though, I’ll never be an Israeli again.
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by SciFi Dad
26 Apr 2010 at 06:39
I’m sorry; I couldn’t read this post due to the massive glare off your dome in the April 2008. I cannot imagine the last two years have improved the situation.
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by barbara
26 Apr 2010 at 06:45
Anzac day is also a thank you to all veterans who laid down their lives for us to enjoy the freedoms we have today. Also the gallipoli battle was the first time australians came together as a united nation rather than individual states after federation, from then on we were truly one nation.
by sarala
26 Apr 2010 at 09:36
Hey,
The kids are sure growing fast. Enjoy them now, my oldest is off in college and the youngest is out to dinner with friends. Time’s a fleeting.
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by RubyTwoShoes
26 Apr 2010 at 20:46
Hi, I have never seen your blog before, but I enjoyed this positively glowing post, I’d venture to say that it even made me feel like a proud Aussie, but I can;t bring myself to do that on account of my Australianess, which strictly prohibits such things….
by Agnes
26 Apr 2010 at 20:53
I didn’t dance around the room to Rolf Harris, heaven forbid, bit I was all over the big game yesterday. Go Pies!!
I don’t mean to disrespect Rolf really – I loved his ‘Star Portraits’ show that used to be on the ABC and think he seems to be a genuinely lovely chap – but ‘Tie Me Kangaroo Down Sport’ should be outlawed.
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by ssg
26 Apr 2010 at 21:38
this is awesome. your life is overall awesome, and you guys deserve it, cos you guys are awesome. is that awesome enough for you?
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by The Unbearable Banishment
26 Apr 2010 at 21:48
It certainly wasn’t your first move, but do you suppose it’ll be your last? I guess in the long run it’s impossible to say…
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by courtney
26 Apr 2010 at 23:34
Forgot to mention: Have I thanked you for introducing me to Frightened Rabbit? Because I saw them on Saturday and they were so, so good. THANKS!
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by Kevin C Jones
27 Apr 2010 at 01:46
I have been all over the world as a Yank, and I’ve been twice to Gallipoli in 1981 with Aussies and Kiwis. And once, coincidentallly, with Turks. The defender of the penisula went on to found a secular state to override the Ottoman empire.
In America the Just, about 1982, I lost my faith in The American Dream. I went back to Australia to work my way back into the Australian Dream. I’ve now got it.
But it itches and bothers me, since I became an Australian citizen back in 1984 and was forced to give up my USA citizenship, And even the right to vote in my former electorate was terminated soon after, I still have outstanding warrants for non-attendance fo jury duty back in TX.
I know I can get my US citizenship back by denying a lot of things I have said about about my friends in the Australian Communist Party, Because I said nothing. Because there was nothing to say..
by mickey
27 Apr 2010 at 04:39
I recently read Bill Bryson’s Australia book. Good stuff. I’m rather taken with your adopted country as well, and I’ve never been. I’ve read some Ed Abbey stuff about his travels in Oz, too, and they also did nothing to dissuade me from the idea that I must make the trip down under some day.
Get out of the way and let. Something tells me that’s good advice.
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by Coal Miner's Granddaughter
27 Apr 2010 at 11:36
That last pictures makes my ovaries weep. PRECIOUS!
And, that’s it. I’m a bit late, but I’m making me some ANZAC biscuits this week. ‘Bout time I tried them.
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by Coal Miner's Granddaughter
27 Apr 2010 at 11:37
Whoops! “That last picture…” Singular. Not plural. Can’t friggin’ spell.
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by IrrationalDad
29 Apr 2010 at 20:17
Happy Anniversary. For some reason, I thought you’d lived there much longer. C’est la vie, I guess. I tell the wife that if I had no strings here, I’d live there, but with what I’ve been reading lately with internet censorship there (I WISH I could remember the name of the bill), I’m starting to wonder.
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by Courtney
29 Apr 2010 at 23:46
aw, lovely post. Australia sounds like home. Despite my love for Pittsburgh I still feel restless sometimes, but maybe I just need time to work its magic on me. Or, since currently I am in Florida and smitten with the gulf coast maybe I just need to live by the ocean…
by arizaphale
30 Apr 2010 at 22:23
I for one am very pleased you made the move, although I don’t get to see you guys half often enough! And also, did you know the ANZAC thing was a big deal because, like Dunkirk, it was a shifty and clever retreat. There are great stories about the Aussies setting up machine guns to randomly fire so that the Turks thought they were still there…and they slipped away under cover of darkness with virtually no loss of life. Interesting that we celebrate this aspect of our nature/culture.
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by Gillian
06 May 2010 at 20:08
I can’t tell if you are teasing the Kiwis with your “less importantly” remark….we don’t see it like that at all over here. According to http://www.nzhistory.net.nz/war/the-gallipoli-campaign/introduction we also lost thousands of soldiers.
It’s a day of remembrance on both sides of the Tasman.
Congratulations on your 2 year immi-versary
by admin
07 May 2010 at 10:09
Gillian,
I was definitely teasing the Kiwis.
by Jill/Twipply Skwood
13 May 2010 at 08:52
Oh my gosh, that last photo is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo CUTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry…but it is.
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