
This is my new favourite photo of Boy Z. I think it just personifies him. In motion. Hair flying (Enjoy that hair, little one. Male pattern baldness is hereditary). A cheeky crooked smile. A little bit feral. It’s just essence of Boy Z.
It has been kind of a lost weekend. Not like those that were frequent in my 20’s – days of memories lost to booze, drugs and the trappings that went along with them. No, lost in the sense of time that is irretrievable. Lost to a combination of driving rain, a dodgy tooth, a croupy kid and the subtle malaise that accompanies the beginning of winter.

I don’t mean to imply that it was a bad weekend. Weekends are never bad. Time with Dr. O’C and Boy Z and Not Max is never bad. Trying? Sometimes. Challenging? Often. Stressful? Usually. But also filled with laughter and the serenity of a good life. This weekend, however, a rapidly festering abcess sent me into a haze of self-pity and analgesia. A haze that made much beyond a basic level of function impossible for your underwhelming narrator and a fair bit of Friday evening was spent supine on the couch emitting soft moans.
Then the rain came and put the kibosh on our planned football outing. And then Boy Z started barking like a seal, which meant a Saturday planted in front of various kids movies on autorepeat. Boy Z wheezing and croaking and me whinging and moaning.
And then the lights went out.

A power outage, a minor occurrence to adults, is a source of much excitement and consternation to little boys, one of whom has a mild fear of the dark. “Where are the lights?” “Turn the lights on, Bubba!” “When the tricity coming back, Bubba?”
But we settled into that rustic groove that a blackout inevitably brings – reading books by candlelight, bumping into various bits of furniture and relying heavily on my battery powered iPod dock for dancing in the dark. But strangely, not to Springsteen.
And to put the final brushstrokes on the whole Laura Ingalls Wilder scene, the after-hours doctor turned up for a house call. He checked Boy Z by candlelight and declared him croupy. Of course he spoke with a strong Persian accent rather than a Minnesotan and trotted off in a Holden rather than on horseback and then the lights blazed back to life and with it 21st century Australia.

But there are a hell of a lot of worse places to be than 21st century Australia. And a lost weekend in 21st century Australia with these particular 21st century Australians isn’t ever really lost.
This post is all over the place and I don’t have much to say, really. I just wanted to point you to my monthly post at The Greenists. And show off some pictures from a weekend past. One that wasn’t lost.
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by flutter
31 May 2010 at 16:55
SUCH beautiful babies

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by Gappy
31 May 2010 at 16:58
Ouch. How’s your abcess now?
Lovely photos.
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by aish
31 May 2010 at 20:17
god Zach is getting to be a big boy…
harry looks as chilled out as oliver
by SciFi Dad
31 May 2010 at 20:36
I must still be “new”, because I find it wildly disorienting to read you write about the coming of winter when it’s been in the 30s all week here.
I know what you mean though, about how weekends can be lost with a sick child… so many plans, so many good ideas of how to spend that precious free time… and then poof: it’s a Dora or Disney or Thomas weekend.
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by arizaphale
31 May 2010 at 21:17
Sorry to hear you’ve all been under the weather. I think I’d rather go through childbirth than a toothache. At least with child birth you get something at the end of it. I stood through two netball matches in that driving rain on Saturday. Talk about lost weekends. We didn’t get the blackout though.LOVE that shot of Zach kicking. That kid has natural athletic flair when he’s not running away with the ball or throwing it into the neighbour’s garden!

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by grumpy
31 May 2010 at 21:27
Boy Z SO looks like my cousin/his daughter it is scary! But I guess they say we all have a twin (or two) out there.
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by headbang8
31 May 2010 at 21:38
A Sherrin! They are lucky boys, indeed.
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by Technobabe
31 May 2010 at 21:57
You are right. The pictures are good. Better than good. Hope Boy Z is feeling better. My son had croup when he was quite young. We would turn on the shower and steam up the bathroom and sit in there with him. Have you been to a dentist with your tooth problem?
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by Jill/Twipply Skwood
01 Jun 2010 at 05:03
You did have an eventful weekend! And Wow, on the house call! I’m sorry about the tooth & hope you’re feeling much better. Very nice pictures!
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by courtney
01 Jun 2010 at 05:14
Great pictures. I hope you and the boys are feeling better.
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by People in the Sun
01 Jun 2010 at 15:09
See, that’s what they don’t get. The new Legos or the football or the pool or even the electricity–nothing matters. Kids will be happy to be with you, and you will be happy when your kids are happy. He won’t remember being sick, but he will remember you being by his side when he needed you.
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by Blogging Mama Andrea
02 Jun 2010 at 00:04
I love the picture with the kicking of the football. That’s fantastic. I have to wonder did you get that shot the first time or make him do it again and again?
Being sick is never fun and I hate the power going out. Thankfully while we’ve had some wicked storms here in NoWheresVille, the power has stayed on.
I’m pretty sure I’ve just cursed myself.
Feel better.
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by jams O'Donnell
02 Jun 2010 at 00:17
They are a pair of cuties!
by The Unbearable Banishment
02 Jun 2010 at 21:50
I misread your words. I thought you wrote about the “senility” of a good life.
We also had a brief, powerful, thunderstorm that kicked the lights out. 3-Year Old Daughter wept.
Croup is the worst! You should record his bark for all prosperity.
by muskrat
03 Jun 2010 at 11:36
Isn’t sickness an indication of inhabiting by evil spirits? He doesn’t look evil. Hmmm. Maybe I’ll rethink some of my notions.
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by Seattledad (Luke, I am Your Father)
03 Jun 2010 at 13:28
Very nicely said.
I grew up on a farm and the lights went out a lot when I was young. It was always accompanied by lots of excitement and fun as we got out the candles and flashlights.
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by Hezamarie
03 Jun 2010 at 20:04
Some of the best posts are all over the place. It has heart.
thanks for sharing
by Keith Wilcox
04 Jun 2010 at 05:59
It’s true, 21 century Australia is sorta a kick-ass kind of place when you consider all the Angola type places you could be instead. Those are some fantastic pictures of your boys

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by ellie
04 Jun 2010 at 06:18
I didn’t realise the Wilders were a Minnesotan clan.
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