21 Jun 2010 at 22:36
A Free Man
fatherhood, jazz
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I totally forgot that yesterday was Father’s Day in much of the Northern Hemisphere* until I saw PostSecret’s “Father’s Day Secrets“. And then I got all sappy and teary-eyed. As you do.
Especially over these ones:
That last one, in particular, got to me. I’ve noticed lately, particularly with Boy Z, this primal need for recognition from [...]

Cannonball Adderley "One for Daddy-O" [8:27m]:
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Reason #143 that I love Australia: public holidays for trivial reasons. There’s the Queen’s Birthday in June (which is not actually the current or any past Queen of England’s birthday), Family and Community Day in the ACT in September, Eight Hours Day in Tasmania in March, Picnic Day in the Northern Territories in August and yesterday’s Adelaide [...]

Warren Zevon "Werewolves of London" [3:27m]:
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I’ve been informed that Not Max is six months old today and that I need to write a post commemorating this because I did so for Boy Z. So, well done Not Max. Well done for keeping a smile on your face despite dealing with the negligent parenting that is the lot of the second child. [...]

R.E.M. "The Lifting" [4:39m]:
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03 Feb 2010 at 11:22
A Free Man
Boy Z, Not Max, Videos, fatherhood
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Not Max, our now five month old son, doesn’t get a lot of face time here at A Free Man. This accurately reflects his position in real life, squarely in the shadow of his older brother. Boy Z walks and talks and runs and throws and hits a cricket ball and thus earns far more [...]

Barry Manilow "Copacabana" [5:41m]:
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This was going to be a different kind of post. I was going to write about how, come the middle of August every year when I was in elementary school, I got bored. How at some point during the dog days, summer ground to a halt and I got excited about going back to school. [...]

Laminated Cat "Aquamarine" [4:16m]:
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There are lots of things about being a father that hurt my heart. Not the least is watching Boy Z try to navigate the Scylla and Charybdis that are human social interactions. I know he’s only 19 months old and at this age, he isn’t really going to establish meaningful relationships with his peers.
In fact, [...]

Ella Fitzgerald "Beat Me Daddy, Eight to the Bar":
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16 Apr 2009 at 16:44
A Free Man
Boy Z, Sports, fatherhood
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I had planned to continue with the politically charged posts today, based in part as a response to Damon’s comment from yesterday. But I’ve still no internet at home and upon my arrival at work discovered a steaming pile of crap that needed to be dealt with yesterday. So, it’s a Moon Pie day – [...]

G. Love and Special Sauce "Shooting Hoops":
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A few years ago I became well acquainted with the concept of powerlessness. I’m fully aware and have come to terms with the fact that I have no control over other people, places or things. It’s liberating in some ways, I’m responsible for my own behavior and that’s about it. As long as I don’t [...]

The Kinks - "Powerman":
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Father Muskrat, considering that he is a Snuggli wearing Southern lawyer, made a remarkably prescient comment yesterday:
ha! there’s no way you’re going to make it 10 days.
You may be correct, my rodentious friend. I was under the impression that I was doing slightly more than fifty percent of the parenting around these parts. It has [...]

The Pixies - "Gouge Away" [2:45m]:
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22 Jan 2009 at 20:41
A Free Man
Boy Z, Chris, fatherhood
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I’ve got a fair few pet peeves. In fact, the number of things that irritate the hell out of me seems to be increasing with my age. I guess I’m on that inevitable march to grumpy-old-manhood. One of the biggies for me is intentional misspelling. You know what I mean – ‘boyz’ for ‘boys’, ‘tonite’ [...]

Jarvis Cocker - "Fat Kidz Let Them Eat Acid (Extra Large Mix)":
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